Qualities of a Friend

Everyday we bear on people. Many of them become instant acquaintances and most acquaintances bloom into companionship. Often this transition period occurs gradu altogethery. Friends come into ours lives and go. hardly a(prenominal) stay a while longer and fewer still leave footprints in our hearts and the smooth of snip. Who is a friend and what are the qualities a friend should possess? The definition of a friend and friendship varies with each individual.For me, a profound friend is someone who understands me, accepts me for what I am and at the same time inspires me to do the best. At a personal level, a true friend should not give up on me, should always forgive my mistakes and never judge me by actions as sometimes my actions may be rash and inconsiderate. We live in a very competitive world. Most of us are caught up in the rat race of paper chase, mounting work pressure and demanding family commitments take a ships bell on our time and energy.Consequently most of us expe rience mood swings due to high expectations place upon us. It is during times like these, when we are burdened with responsibilities and life seems to be an endless uphill struggle, that we seek the comforting words of a friend a friend who urges you to pick up the pieces and move on. A good friend is always there to lend a helping hand or to lend us a shoulder to cry on. At the same time, a friend should be bankworthy and loyal.When friends trust us with secrets, we should never betray their confidence. No one can confide in someone whom he cannot trust to keep his secrets. True friendship is demanding. It requires loyalty, trust, empathy, support and understanding. However, one should never expect such virtues in a friend unless he is willing to offer these virtues in return. In other words, one mustiness be a friend to sop up a friend. It may be impossible to find all these virtues in a single friend.However, should I come across such a friend I shall treasure our friendship for life. As I reminisce about the good times I have shared with the best of my friends, the words of William Shakespeare keeps ringing in my ears. The friends thou has, and their adoption tired, Grapple them to thy soul with basketball game of steel. Yes, friendship that has stood the test of time should be most revered and happy is the man who is blessed with such a friend.